In my wanderings about the internet tonight, I followed a trail to Stephen Fry's official blog site. I read this entry: In it he says, "It’s not that I want a sexual partner, a long-term partner, someone to share a bed and a snuggle on the sofa with – although perhaps I do and in the past I have had and it has been joyful. But the fact is I value my privacy too. It’s a lose-lose matter. I don’t want to be alone, but I want to be left alone." THIS is how I have always felt. I understand exactly what he is saying. I feel the words from the inside out. It is a frustrating place to be, but I cannot be anywhere else because it makes me miserable. Thank you, Mr. Fry, for putting it together so simply and clearly for me.